Day in the Life Photo Shoot with Olio Style Studio

Bridezilla? Not me. But I was zealous about one thing. Documenting the day.

Aside from the obvious, (husband-to-be, family, friends) that was the most important thing to me about my wedding day 11 years ago.

Photos and video. 

If you know me, you know my long-term memory is crap. I blame it on years of general assignment reporting where your job is literally to become as well-versed as you can on one or more topics that day, digest the information, and tell it to viewers as cogently as possible. 

Rinse and repeat.

That is a daily workout for your short term memory. My short term memory became The Rock of short term memories. All buff and tatted while maintaining its gentle and sensitive side. But my long term memory atrophied. It was so rarely exercised that it sort of just...sucked at remembering things long term. I recently did a personality quiz and one of the questions, on a scale of completely disagree, mostly disagree, neutral, mostly agree, completely agree, was: Are you often in situations where people are telling stories about you and you have no memory of those stories? I was all, COMPLETELY AGREE.

So I knew that I wanted to properly document my wedding day, because I didn't want to have all these people talking about it later and me being all, "I was there? You don't say!"

And obviously being a journalist, I think the documentary/photojournalism style of recording a piece of your history is mission critical. I love the candid moments far more than the posed ones, and I love the storytelling you can glean from a series of photos.

We recently did a "day in the life" photo shoot with my friend Jay Tsai of Olio Style Studio. It's something I'd never thought to do but decided to invest in because I know exactly how fast my girls are growing up. Emerson is 9, Odessa 6 and Renley 2. It's the perfect window of time before they become too self-conscious, when we're all still together on weekends because Renley is still napping and the girls aren't in too many activities yet.

I realized there are so many moments that happen on a Saturday or Sunday that may seem mundane but when you look back on those snippets in time, they are special, in part, because they are so normal. The unposed, candid moments that capture the essence of a day in our quickly passing lives.

Seeing the girls wake up and make their beds, Odessa putting on some fake American Girl doll bangs to prank her dad, Renley's bedhead... plus all the photos that document little details about their toys, their art, how they like to play. Or when they fall off a Boble and hurt themselves.

As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words. For someone who wants to remember as much as possible but has the long term memory of an amnesiac, having this snapshot in time of what we did as a family from waking up until the last story before bedtime--I loved the concept, and the collection of photos at the end definitely exceeded my expectations. 

My advice if you do a "day in the life shoot"--don't over-plan your day. Have a couple fun things to do, maybe a picnic or park visit. We happened to do our shoot on a day when we were having relatives over for dinner, so I spent a lot of time in the kitchen prepping and cooking.

It was super helpful to work with Jay, who really faded into the background and made it super easy for us to do what we normally do without feeling like we were being photographed. It takes a talented person to do that and capture really well composed images. We had a conversation later about the White House photographers and what a job that must be. Always having to be "on" to snap a potentially iconic image, and being able to witness so many historical moments.

This was not quite so epic as a White House shoot, just an ordinary day in our lives. But when we look at the final product—an adjustable length slideshow plus 1400 images--I'm so happy we did it. The girls were themselves, and now I have a video we'll force them to play at each of their weddings.

See how my post came full circle with weddings? BANG! Love it when that happens.

PS The Good Doctor was judiciously edited out of this public version of the slideshow. There are definitely more photos of him than Tofu so rest assured, he was well spot-lighted in the shoot.  #DadsRule

PPS Make sure you go to the gear icon in the bottom right of the Animoto slideshow window and check that it's on 720p not 360p otherwise the pics will look really blurry. And make it full screen.

PPPS This is an abbreviated version of our slideshow for public consumption. The Asian family version is like 30 minutes long and I’m sure my parents will make every visitor watch every. single. minute.